From Alone Together… to Truly Together Again.
Online relationship therapy & coaching — where change begins and connection grows.
The same thoughts and feelings on repeat
“I can’t do this anymore.”
“We have the same fight over and over again.”
“It feels like I’ll never be understood.”
“What if we separate? What if I’m really alone?”
“Even when we’re together, I feel completely alone in this relationship.”
If this sounds like your relationship, you are not alone — and it doesn’t have to stay this way.
That first breath of relief — it’s closer than you think.
Couples who work with me often feel a shift in our very first session.
The heaviness softens, hope returns, and for the first time in a long time, it feels possible to reconnect.
Over time, that relief deepens into trust, intimacy, and a stronger bond.
💡 Your partner doesn’t want to start therapy? No worries. Come as an individual and we can do similar work that often has a surprisingly powerful impact on your relationship.
What Makes This Work Different?
I don’t believe in endless years of therapy without change. My approach is intuitive, heart-centered, and grounded in trust — trust that you can shift, even when the way forward feels impossible.
In work with me, you will:
Begin to feel like and see the real YOU underneath the hurt.
Uncover the real roots beneath the conflict and triggers
Learn to regulate emotions and respond instead of react
Rebuild connection, intimacy, and trust
Learn to say what you deeply feel to your partner without fear of being misunderstood
Hi, I’m Fanshen
I’m a licensed therapist and relationship coach in California. Couples come to me feeling stuck, misunderstood, or on the brink of giving up. I hold a safe, healing space for even the hardest conversations and guide my clients back to connection, one breakthrough at a time.
I believe in your capacity to change — even when you can’t see the path yet. Together, we’ll find it.
Through our work together, you can begin to express yourselves compassionately and listen more deeply to one another.
No one should feel alone in their relationship. Let’s find your way back to each other.Together.
Choose Your Path: Therapy or Coaching
Therapy
Weekly sessions
Open-ended, no set timeline
Builds insight and tools at a natural pace
Flexible and ongoing
Gentle growth
Must be currently living California
Coaching
More frequent sessions
Intensive program options
Creates fast, focused breakthroughs
Structured and time-limited
Bold reset
Can live anywhere in the world to access