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FAQ

# The questions _most people ask._

If your question isn't here, just reach out — I'm happy to answer it directly.

Do you work with all kinds of relationships? 

I absolutely work with all kinds of relationships — married, partnered, dating, gay, straight, monogamous, non-monogamous. I have a humanist approach, meaning I don't specialize in any one of those areas. In my experience, my approach applies to any and all humans. If you're looking for a specialist in one of those areas, I might not be the right fit for you.

Is this covered by insurance? 

Do I have to be in California? 

What if only one of us wants to do this? 

How long does it take to see results? 

Are sessions confidential? 

Do you offer sliding scale? 

What should I expect in a free consultation? 

Do you work with issues around sex and intimacy specifically? 

What if we've tried couples therapy before and it didn't work? 

How do I book? 

What is your cancellation policy? 

Do you provide a Good Faith Estimate (No Surprises Act)? 

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